Jillian Aurora
- Apr 26, 2021
- 1 min
Let's Talk About Trust
“I don’t know how to learn to trust again.” I hear this OVER and OVER. Then I hear some version of desperately trying to figure out how...
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Jillian Aurora
- Apr 25, 2021
- 2 min
You Have Earned Your Discernment
Your discernment is getting stronger. You are seeing the red flags. You are learning to trust yourself and that “gut feeling”. So, you...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 12, 2021
- 2 min
We Fight For Every Woman
My abuser could smell a powerful woman from a mile away. He knew my exposure to her intense, free spirited independence might make me...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 19, 2020
- 3 min
Violence is Not Unpredictable
We like to think red flags are mysterious. Hard to spot until it’s too late. Evasive. I disagree. I used to believe I “couldn’t know” if...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 9, 2020
- 1 min
Our "Politeness" is Killing Us
As women, we have been deeply conditioned to be polite at all costs. A man compliments you? Smile and say “thank you”. A man offers help?...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 7, 2020
- 3 min
Know the Red Flag Predictions
Many years of my life, I thought domestic violence was black and white. It was easy to spot. I knew I’d never be a victim, because I...
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