I Celebrate Hearing NO
Updated: Nov 10, 2020
I talk a lot about unapologetically identifying what you want and setting the standards required to be in your presence.
And, I have become pretty bold in declaring what I want, no matter how outrageous or inconvenient.
I know EXACTLY how I like my bed made.
I know EXACTLY how I like my coffee.
I know EXACTLY how I like my home organized and cleaned.
I know EXACTLY what kind of partner I require.
I know EXACTLY the requirements I hold to be in friendships.
I know EXACTLY what kind of coaches I like to hire.
I know EXACTLY what kind of criticism/feedback I am available for.
I know EXACTLY the message I’m here to share and who I’m sharing it with.
I know EXACTLY what kind of clients I choose to work with.
I have taken SO MUCH time to get to know myself, my preferences and desires, it irritates some people.
I have committed to myself SO COMPLETELY to dare to be INCONVENIENT and DISAPPOINTING if that is what is required to be TRUE TO MYSELF.
When someone ELSE informs me of THEIR requirements, THEIR preferences, THEIR desires, I am THRILLED.
It’s not a match for me.
See, sometimes, I get a “no”.
Sometimes, people aren’t a fit for me.
Sometimes, I get turned down.
Sometimes, people’s desires are NOT me.
Sometimes, people don’t feel inspired to hire me.
Sometimes, people don’t want to be my friend.
Sometimes, people don’t like my message.
And today, I CELEBRATE THAT.
Because today, I celebrate HONESTY and AUTHENTICITY.
I don’t want someone to MANUFACTURE A YES that’s not genuine.
I understand the Divine works through INSPIRATION and that ISN’T MANUFACTURED.
When you are in my presence, please know this: you are safe to be YOU. 100%. You are safe to say YES. You are safe to say NO. You are safe to have your inconvenient desires. You are safe and FULLY supported to follow your inspiration.
Even if that means you tell me to FUCK OFF. Even if that means we part ways. Whatever it means, Goddess, please trust your INNER BOSS above EVERYTHING.<3<3
P.S. This is what a healthy relationship feels like. I'm safe to be me and you're safe to be you.